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Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Sun Feb 16, 2025 10:52 am
by HEM
Kerfuffle wrote: ↑Sun Feb 16, 2025 8:56 am
... and hopefully less bureaucracy.
Forget that - at least in Germany. Bureaucracy is far too embedded in their DNA here.
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Sun Feb 16, 2025 1:19 pm
by Sannerl
HEM wrote: ↑Sun Feb 16, 2025 10:52 am
Kerfuffle wrote: ↑Sun Feb 16, 2025 8:56 am
... and hopefully less bureaucracy.
Forget that - at least in Germany. Bureaucracy is far too embedded in their DNA here.
Especially when it comes to already paid for but repeating tickets for the same reason (TÜV overdue for more than 4 but less than 6 months; 25 €). And normal and yellow letters. We replied to those, too.
Finally got a letter a few days ago saying that all charges were dropped.
Must have cost us taxpayers hundreds of €s at least.
And it's not embedded in
my DNA (Swabian/Lower Bavarian; born and raised here in Munich, Germany).
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Wed Feb 26, 2025 5:34 pm
by Emkay
We’re heartbroken that our sweet Nelly died today. Super loving until her last moment……

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Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Wed Feb 26, 2025 5:52 pm
by bramble
So sorry, emkay. Beautiful photo.
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Wed Feb 26, 2025 10:18 pm
by Emkay
bramble wrote: ↑Wed Feb 26, 2025 5:52 pm
So sorry, emkay. Beautiful photo.
Thank you bramble. When we still lived in the UK, we went to the RSPCA to adopt a cat when kiddo was 6. We were shocked that they said that people didn’t want black cats. The reason supposedly being that they aren’t photogenic for selfies, ruined light coloured furniture etc. We of course immediately adopted two black kitties….we didn’t care about furniture.
Here in Germany, we adopted 3 more blackies at 3 weeks old, abandoned by their mother. Our 2 old ladies we brought over from the UK are still fine though all 3 German babies died from 1-10 years of age. The vet said that they likely had genetic problems. We’re all so very sad.

Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2025 7:54 am
by Alberto
My crappy car failed the TUV. Not a surprise actually. But I didn't expect the cost estimate to get it sorted, to be as high as the current 2k eur bill.
I drive 3k km/yr and seriously thinking of staying without car. Although for the few trips I do use it, it is really nice to have....
Who else here was hesitant to give up their car, and after ditching it has actually no regret?
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2025 3:51 pm
by kiplette
I crashed ours back in 2011 and it took us 18 months to replace.
I was fine without it and have some regrets about having one again.
If you really use it so rarely, surely hiring is the way to go, or car share if you live in an area where that is an option.
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2025 8:11 pm
by Robinson100
@ Alberto
- my "Gemeinde" has an electric car hire service that they operate for locals.
Not sure exactly where you live, but maybe there is something similar in your region? ...
Personally, I couldn´t live without a car at the moment - when I have early shift, I have to be at work at 5.15am, and the first train would get me there for 6am!!!
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2025 9:26 pm
by Fraufruit
2k for a car doesn't sound like the world will end.
Neither does a train ride to Munich to meet me.

Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2025 12:44 pm
by Franklan
The USA's stock market is crashing so badly, it's almost as if the country is being run by someone who went bankrupt 6 times!
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 11:24 am
by LeonG
Alberto wrote: ↑Fri Mar 07, 2025 7:54 am
Who else here was hesitant to give up their car, and after ditching it has actually no regret?
I was. I tried public transport and found it good enough. Sure, you have to calculate a bit more time sometimes. One of my friends lives in a village with bad public transport so instead of visiting them, they come to me or we meet at a cafe or a restaurant.
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2025 1:45 pm
by Alberto
Shame on me.
I instructed the workshops to do all repairs necessary for passing the TUV (my car failed it last week).
it really sucks that I use it so little, and yet certain fix costs are simply fix, they do not scale with usage.
Next time around, in 2yr time, I will try to have more gut.
For the record, here my average car cost since I bought it at Xmas 2013:
including all sort of repairs, tires, fuel, tax, insurance, motorways (the few times I drove to Italy), parking, and speeding tickets:
126eur / month
and including also purchase:
183 / eur
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2025 7:01 am
by Alberto
Devastated
Last night I realised many (most?) of my small tomato plants I bought and put outside, in the greenhouse, died.
Indeed there's been frosts, but I thought inside the greenhouse, close, they were fine.
And if that wasn't bad enough, last night I even forgot the greenhouse flap open, and again there was probably frost overnight.
I will have to spend another fortune at the garden shop to buy their replacements. Not to say about my heartache.
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2025 3:35 pm
by Franklan
Alberto wrote: ↑Tue Apr 08, 2025 7:01 am
Indeed there's been frosts, but I thought inside the greenhouse, close, they were fine.
Could be worse,some one else started little fires under the apple trees to conquer the frosts, but burned down the house:
https://www.spiegel.de/panorama/kirchhe ... 7751eb2ba8
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2025 3:32 pm
by HEM
We had the grandchildren staying with us last week until Friday and as a parting "gift" passed their colds onto me so I'm out of action for several days...
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2025 3:52 pm
by snowingagain
Perhaps try and regard is as an important immune boost for your later years....
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2025 7:09 pm
by Robinson100
Alberto wrote: ↑Tue Apr 08, 2025 7:01 am
Devastated
Last night I realised many (most?) of my small tomato plants I bought and put outside, in the greenhouse, died.
Indeed there's been frosts, but I thought inside the greenhouse, close, they were fine.
And if that wasn't bad enough, last night I even forgot the greenhouse flap open, and again there was probably frost overnight.
I will have to spend another fortune at the garden shop to buy their replacements. Not to say about my heartache.
Now why on earth would you want to go and spend a fortune in the garden shop for a few tomatoes???!!!
I can let you have some seeds to grow your own, if you like? (PM me if interested, okay?)
Plus, check out this thread:
viewtopic.php?t=34
you will certainly be able to pick up some tips!
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2025 9:12 pm
by kiplette
Alberto, if the expense is because you will replace your lost plants with other plants rather than with seeds, then I urge you to give kleinanzeigen etc a look - so many people have far too many tomato plants and right now they just want them gone.
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 1:13 am
by HEM
snowingagain wrote: ↑Sun Apr 13, 2025 3:52 pm
Perhaps try and regard is as an important immune boost for your later years....
I'd got through the Winter without any ills - we'd both been vaccinated against the "Flu".
Re: Why are you unhappy today?
Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 6:14 pm
by Tap
HEM wrote: ↑Mon Apr 14, 2025 1:13 am
snowingagain wrote: ↑Sun Apr 13, 2025 3:52 pm
Perhaps try and regard is as an important immune boost for your later years....
I'd got through the Winter without any ills - we'd both been vaccinated against the "Flu".
I got the flu vaccine in October and, although I usually pride myself in seldome being ill, I got a chest infection in November, a bad cold in January and I've just recovered from a bad sinus infection. I actually blame it on my two grandchildren who seem to bring every infectious illness home from kindergarten on a regular basis
